Scenario #4: The relationship is starting to get serious Congratulations, you’ve finally progressed from dating to being exclusive.
Great, but continue watching what he says and does.
He is still a great guy; you just both want different things Just because he doesn’t want commitment or marriage doesn’t make him a bad guy (and don’t tell him, or others, that he’s a bad guy just because you’re upset).
Shift your attention and reflect inward on how you can improve your prospects of finding a man aligned with your relationship goals. There is no ideal time to leave Saying goodbye will never be easy.
Remember to be kind and loving to yourself along the way.
Now that you’re ready to take action towards your heart’s desire, know that you’re further down the path toward meeting the guy of your dreams.
It’s hard to detach yourself from a guy you really like, but it’s far easier when you haven’t invested a ton of time and effort into a connection that’s going nowhere.
Scenario #3: It’s a hot-and-cold love affair On-again, off-again relationships are both fun and deeply frustrating, which is why most of them don’t end in commitment or marriage—they just end. So when you send mixed signals to the Universe, higher power, or God, you find yourself in the type of relationships you don’t really want over and over again.
If your goals aren’t aligned, the time to leave is now.